The last few months have literally been a blur! I feel like we may finally be settling into the new changes in our family. We are so thankful for how the Lord has worked to bring these three precious children into our lives. We know that He indeed has a special plan for each of them. We look forward with great anticipation to seeing this plan unfold.
The Lord is so good. As a foster/adoptive parent I often times hear people say things like “it’s a wonderful thing that you’re doing for these children” or “these kids are so blessed to have a family like your’s who will take them in and love them.” I can certainly see why people may make these comments, but I’ve got a different perspective. My perspective is one that focuses on what the Lord is trying to accomplish not only in the childs life, but in our lives (my husband, myself and our family as a whole) by bringing this precious child into our life. As much as our family may be a blessing to a child in need of a loving home, that child is a blessing to us. A wonderful gift from the Giver. A tool used to refine us, to move us more towards Christ-likeness. One of our most recent placements has done just that.
She’s a precious six year old girl who joined our family on November 2nd. She’s endured more heartache than many of us do in a lifetime. She has many emotional needs that have been neglected, which has created a child who lacks trust in just about anyone. We’ve had quite an adjustment period and it hasn’t been easy, but one thing is quite evident…the Lord is at work. We have been so blessed to see steady progress and are so thankful that the Lord chose our family to place her in. It has been a privilege to share God’s word with her and see her soak it in. I pray daily that the Lord will quickly turn her heart towards Him and that she’ll trust him as her Lord and Savior. The severence on this case should be completed in about three months (assuming everything goes as planned legally!)
The other precious little girl the Lord brought to our home is now a thriving little four month old. She’s come a long way since her days in the NICU unit. Our little peanut was a 30 week preemie and spent the first month of her life in the hospital. We were blessed enough to start visiting her the day after she was born and participate in her care the first month while she was in the NICU. Like our other foster daughter she came home November 2nd as well. She’s on the fast track to adoption due to her biological mother’s history. We’re praying that the Lord will move her case along quickly without any unsuspected snafus!
Hayden, our precious little boy who joined our family in April 2007 (just after his birth) had his parental rights terminated a couple of weeks ago and is now legally free for adoption. Praise the Lord Hayden is one step closer to being our forever son. He’s a delight and is proving to be quite the little bruiser! He recently sprouted his very first tooth and has decided that table food is the only food for him. Gone are the days where pureed food satisfied him.
In a nutshell we went from five to eight blessings in seven months. Life is very busy and God is very good!